Could you try not being an evil tyrant?

Don’t spur a willing horse.
~Ancient proverb

It never ceases to frustrate me how many people in “leadership” positions penalize the people who work hardest for them.  Why disparage those who work for you?  Does that ever work?  What could you possibly be thinking when you so diligently set out to destroy morale of everyone around you?

But the question that I most want to ask bad bosses and leaders is:  Have you never seen a movie?

Or read a story?  Tv even?  Seriously.  It’s really irritating to see such blatant ignorance.  The tyrant always loses.

Does anyone ever root for the heartless tyrant?

Lets look at the well known story Robin Hood.

The sheriff of Nottingham is evil, mean, pretty much without redeemable qualities whatsoever.  His greed and selfishness are undeniable.  But above all, he treats everyone around him like dirt.  He yells, he screams, he blames others for his mistakes.  Nothing is ever good enough, all he sees is failure in his people.  As a result, he fails.  His soldiers and men fear him, but they don’t respect him.  They work for money, or for lack of options, but they are anything but loyal.  Belittled, broken people will do just enough to stay off the radar.  When no one is looking, productivity ceases.  The sheriff stands around ordering people to do his dirty work and, at the end of the day, you can’t expect people to do things for you, that you wouldn’t do yourself.

Whereas Robin’s men are loyal to the death.  He treats his people as equals, he is kind and obviously a generous person.  People are inspired by his leadership to the point that the very idea of Robin Hood is what has power, the man is no longer necessary.  Robin Hood stands side by side with those who follow him, fighting and bleeding and sacrificing as much if not more of himself… and that is why he always wins.

Inspiration is a far stronger motivator than fear.  Fear is temporary.  Inspiration has a life of its own.

So again, why do “leaders”, “managers”, people in charge resort to acting like tyrants?

More importantly…..how do these people get promoted in the first place?

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Why do you quit before you get started?

“Never be afraid to try something new. Remember, amateurs built the ark. Professionals built the Titanic.”
~Unknown

How often do you try completely new things?  When is the last time you abandoned all reason and took an ambitious leap into an activity you’d never tried before?  If you’re like me, it may have been a while.

I tend to talk myself out of trying  new things.  I dismiss them as something outside of my skill set.  I tell myself I don’t have the talent before I’ve ever even attempted it.  I’m afraid of failure.

I make excuses for never giving the effort.  I am self defeated.  I have put limits on myself that only exist in my own mind.

“I can’t do that, I’m not good at math- I’m not artistic- I don’t have the patience.”

I’d bet you do this too.

We both need to stop it.

The cliched truth is that neither of us will know if we’re good at something until we try it.  More than that, we won’t know if we enjoy it.  Small children LOVE to finger paint, but, be honest, mostly they just make a mess.  Finger paints don’t have much artistic value, but that doesn’t stop kids from loving it.  And the truth is, no matter how much we wish it wasn’t the case, most talents take time to develop.  Maybe Michelangelo started off by finger painting and after a life time pursuing his love of art he developed epic talent.

Most of the time when you start a new activity, you’re going to suck.  Forget about being good at something and decide if you like it.

Just try new things and stop talking yourself out of it.  Ignore your preconceived limitations.  Who cares if you’re no good?  Plan to fail.

I honestly think it is better to be a failure at something you love than to be a success at something you hate.

~ George Burns

(Photo by abbybatchelder)